9.09.2010

Day four, culture shock

*Warning* Lots of pictures!!! And lots of talking!!!

Since we were staying in Marbella, and it was only a little over an hour drive down to the southern most tip of Spain, which has a ferry that crosses over to Africa, it was kind of a no brainer that we would be making that happen.

So Monday morning we got up and headed to Morocco. It was such an amazing experience, I don't even know what to say about it. We really only got a taste, we only got to spend about five hours there, but it was definitely enough to give us a little jolt of culture shock, and also to make us wish we had a bit more time there.

Here is Jesse getting ready to board the ferry:

Inside the ferry:

Heading away from Spain:

Our first view of Africa, off in the distance:

Pulling into Tangier, here is new town:

and old town:

We had read in Rick Steves (God bless Rick Steves) that we would be swarmed with "guides" (ie hustlers) from the minute we stepped off the boat, which was absolutely true. We were still walking through the parking lot towards town in this picture, and this was I think the third guy that we were turning down. They tell you "You will be swarmed with mosquitos all day, you need to hire me, I will protect you, and one mosquito is better than many." And they are seriously as annoying as mosquitos buzzing in your ears, too.

And so, to get the other mosquitos to leave us alone, we finally hired Samere (no idea if that is spelled right, sorry, buddy). He was a nice enough dude, but he definitely showed us the part of Tangier that will make him money. We only paid him a couple euro to show us around, but as a "guide", he gets a cut of anything that we buy. We had been warned of this, and warned that they will mostly show you places where you will buy things. I told Samere of two places that I wanted him to show us, and the first we just kinda glided by (he said there wasn't really anything to see, and I didn't realize until later that he was in a hurry to get us off to the shops), and the second he never even got us to, we finally got there later in the day by ourselves. He did however, take us to a carpet store and let us look at lots of different kinds of rugs with a very knowledgeable salesman. And he definitely encouraged us to look at certain little stores, while seeming annoyed when we wanted to stop at others (it was obvious which stores were his buddies). But like he told us, he is "like Coca Cola, everyone know me". Which was true, and he was friendly, and he did show us around a bit, so it was all good.

There are houses in old town (the only part that Samere showed us) that have been purchased by Europeans and fixed up. It is very obvious walking around which ones they are:

Chatting:


Walking the streets:


These houses were actually touching:

At the edge of Africa, Spain is somewhere behind us:

We paid a couple euro to the tourist trap snake charmers, but it was kinda fun to see:


It's hard to tell, but that is a cobra:

The one for the tourists to hold is harmless :) :



Some kids in traditional dress:

At the top of the carpet store, surveying old town:

Old town was very interesting as far as the mixture of culture. A lot of people still wear the full traditional garments, with women's heads covered, but you see Moroccans dressed very westernized, too. The old town was obviously the biggest culture shock, as it is where the poorest inhabitants live, and there is such blatant poverty. There are sickly looking cats everywhere, and garbage in the streets. At one point we passed this little water fountain thing, and just as I was thinking that I was thirsty but there was no way I would drink out of that thing, Samere informed us that that was where people who didn't have water in their house came to fill up buckets and jugs. And sure enough, we saw a guy filling up buckets and hauling them back to his house.

We bought several things in old town, some clothes for the kids and we each got leather sandals. Everything is negotiable, and already cheap, so we really hardly spent any money and got quite a bit of clothing, and lunch. For two entrees, four bottles of water, and dessert, we paid about 10 euro. Here are some pics of the shopping area:

(this guy was really bothered that I photographed his shop):



The spanish mission:

About that time, we realized that Samere was just going to keep us wandering the streets of old town all day, so that we could keep buying things from his buddies, so we paid him and set off on our own. Here is the Grand Square (the second place I had requested to go, it separates old and new town, but it was obvious he was not wanting to take us there). This side is old town:

This side is new town:

It was still nothing like we would expect in our country, but it was definitely newer and more modern that the other side of town. Here is the mosque on the square:

An entrance to a garden where they were praying:

When we left the square, we went out through the market, which are these tiny, narrow, enclosed streets lined with booths. There are no pictures of the market, as the smells were overwhelming, and it was all I could do to concentrate on walking quickly and getting myself out of there without throwing up.

When we came out the other side, I was able to photograph some more :) :


We bought a couple more things from this lady, in a comparatively huge shop in new town:


The street that lines the beach:

I had really wanted to see a camel, and literally as we were turning to head back to the boat I spotted this off in the distance:

So I convinced Jess that we had just enough time for me to hop on!


It was a bit crazy when he stood, I was definitely holding on to not go flying off:



This was one of the highlights of our day for me.

The petite taxi we had to jump in to get back to the boat, since we took the little detour for my camel ride:

Again, the contrast in housing:

Another mosque:

And back to the southern tip of Spain:

So, we were pretty warn out physically and mentally from our time in Africa, but I had researched Gibraltar before hand, and was interested to see it. We went back and forth, and finally decided, we were there, it would be a shame to not at least try to drive through. Man, what an unexpected, and very cool place. If you don't know the background behind Gibraltar, google it. It's basically a little chunk of land, mostly a huge rock, that is connected to Spain, but is owned by the British. There is a lot of animosity between the two countries over this little tiny piece of land, and the inhabitants are super proud to be British, so it is literally like being in England.

The Spanish pretend that it doesn't exist, so there are very few signs for it. Here is one of I think only three that we saw, with the actual rock and town in the background:


The first thing we did was to drive up as high as we could on the rock. This is looking down over the town of Gibraltar:



There are monkeys that live on the rock, and they are of course completely used to humans, with all the tourists and what not. We were told that they can touch you, but don't touch them, which we found to be true. They are not afraid of humans at all, but if you get too close to them, they were a bit aggressive. But so darn cute!!!

Just catching a ride down the road on our car:


Checking for food:


Jesse was trying to get him to jump on his shoulder:

But no luck:

There were lots and lots of babies, and they were darling:







Pretty cool place to live:

The Gibraltar flag, British flag, and EU flag (with monkeys):

They have a runway (in the past, Spain has closed the border, and the only way for Gilbraltarians to get water and supplies was by plane) which crosses the only road into and out of Gibraltar.

That road that runs between the white and yellow buildings is the border. Everything beyond those yellow buildings and trees is Spain:

Looking down over town:


The Moorish castle (really just a tower basically):

We found a little Rick recommended pub for dinner. Again, you would never know that you were close to Spain, they are so separated:


Bangers and mash:


Day three

Apparently we didn't take any pictures on day three, probably because we spent most of it in our swimsuits by the pool. Or, at least, I did. Jesse spent it by the pool, going for a run, by the pool again, taking our motorcycle back, by the pool, etc, etc. I did get up at one point to go with him and stroll down the beach for a bit, get a bite to eat, and then head back to the pool (and when I say by the pool, what I mean is laying on a lounge chair with a book and my ipod, half awake). That evening we thought it would be fun to play a little Texas Hold'em at the casino near our hotel, so I managed to haul myself out of the sun and put on some clothes, and then go loose some money. It was horrible. I won the first two hands we played, and then I sucked it up the rest of the night. Fortunately for our bank account, my husband is a stud and he won us lots of money, and we came out ahead :). And that's about it for day three, my idea of a perfect day!

Day two, Happy Anniversary!!

Saturday was our actual anniversary, and we decided to rent a motorcycle and cruise up into the mountains, to a town named Ronda. Ronda has the oldest bull ring in Spain, and also has a super famous bridge that spans a huge gorge that seperates the Spanish side of town from the Moorish side.

I woke up early again, for the second day in a row, but managed to read in bed for a while until I couldn't stand it any more and woke Jesse up so that we could go get our bike and get movin'! We got some darling pictures of us in front of the hotel with the bike, but the camera was on the wrong setting when we gave it to the bellboy, so none of them turned out. Sigh.

So up into the hills we went, on long, windey (as in the road wound all over...how do you spell that??) roads, past pockets of villages where every building was whitewashed completely white, with the sea in the background. Talk about gorgeous views!

As we pulled into Ronda we quickly realized that they were having a festival that day, apparently some kind of celebration of said bull ring, with festivities and amazing costumes all day, and then a bull fight in the evening. As we sat in traffic trying to get somewhere, anywhere, we nodded to the couple on a motorcycle next to us. Which turned into saying hi to the couple next to us. Which led to realizing that they spoke English, which led to spending the next several hours with Jon and Trish, who had ridden their bike from England and were cruising around Spain and Portugal.

Arriving in town (please excuse the tennis shoes and helmet hair, casualties of riding a bike):

At the start of the main street which led to the bull ring, all decked out for the party:

Jon and Trish:

There were several characters along the street, but they wanted us to pay for pictures with them. So one of us would walk behind them while the other took a picture:

Lots of the local ladies were dressed up for the festival, and we kept taking pictures of them, as their dresses were so cool!

We saw so many sets of twins during our whole trip, it was crazy! But I think these were the cutest little ones:

More ladies (these ones were a little tipsy):

Making friends with the locals:

Jesse at the top of the bridge:

Jess is a little tiny spot at the top of it, it was crazy huge:

We ate lunch right underneath of the bridge, so cool:


Not sure why, but a bunch of men in traditional dress went riding by us:



Oh man, I need to start doing this with my girls, they look so cute!

Just more street:

Leaving town (Ronda is a bigger city in the area, so it didn't look as compact and white as the smaller ones. I wish we had taken some pics of those):



It wasn't easy getting my helmet on and off with my hair and sunglasses. So it stayed on for the pics:

We got back to the hotel and swam for a bit, then got dressed and headed to dinner. Jesse made reservations for a really good seafood restaurant down the beach, so we decided to walk and enjoy the evening.
The walkway in that direction is paved, and is lined with shops and restaurants on one side (the ocean on the other) and is so fun to walk along and people watch. Our table was literally on the walkway, and we spent several hours eating (including fish pate and octopus for one of us) and watching people. We finally headed back to our hotel close to midnight, and people were still out and about with kids, even toddlers. Way different lifestyle there, some things don't even open until after dark at 9 or 10 at night, and the nightlife goes easily until 3 or 4 am.

Another crazy fun day.

Our first night and day

Our trip was so incredibly blessed, from the second we stepped onto the plane. We had the first row of seats, which on Ryan air has mega leg room. We were the first ones off the plane, our luggage was the first onto the luggage belt, and the rental car place was still open and waiting for us. Jesse had reserved a mini Cooper to surprise me, and it was so fun to buzz around in, AND it had mood lighting. That we could change the color of. So cool.

By the time we got to Marbella (where our hotel was) it was 1:30 am, but Jesse was just commenting on how hungry he was and that he would love to find some food before we went to our room, when we passed a McDonald's that was open...seriously.

So we got to our hotel and the front desk informs us that they don't have any more mountain view rooms available (which we weren't even paying full price for, we got a deal online) so they were going to have to move us to one of the bigger, ocean view rooms with a balcony. But they didn't have any of those available for the night, either, so for the inconvenience of having to change rooms the next day, they were going to put us in their nicest suit on the roof. You have no idea how hard it was to remain cool the whole way up the elevator with the bellboy.

We had planned on going right to bed as we were wiped out, but once we saw the suite, we ended up staying up until 3:30 am. You'll see why.

Our first morning I woke up early, as usual, and was too excited to sleep, so I got up with the sun to, you know, relax (Jesse had to explain to me the irony of getting up early to relax after I woke him early two days in a row. I was instructed to go to breakfast and then on to the pool by myself and let him relax in our bed ;) ). So the first thing I did that first morning was take pictures of everything, including my sleepy husband.

The livingroom from the door:

Into our bedroom, here are the flat screen tv, and our own espresso machine:

The bedroom (I wish I had gotten this before we slept in it, but you know how it goes):

The bathroom, complete with weights:

The shower:

The closet:

Walking from the bedroom back toward the living room and deck:

Living room looking toward the door:

And the best part was by far the deck. Here is our bar and personal ice machine:

The fountain/bridge area:

The bed (I only left this bed to sleep inside and go down to breakfast):

Oh yeah, and to go in our own spa:

And of course, the putting green:

It was blissful.

Here's the view toward the mountain:

To the side:

And finally, toward the water, with our hotel's grounds below us:

And just in case you like to watch the ocean while getting some exercise (thanks, Love, for the demonstration):

Like I said, we hit breakfast (which was amazing every day, by the way) and then I immediately took up residence on the outside bed, until we had to change rooms just after noon. Don't worry, I changed after we took some pics so that I could start working on my tan right away.





When Jesse and the staff finally blasted me out of the suite, and we got ourselves settled into our commoner room (which was still pretty stinkin' amazing), we grabbed some sandwiches at the poolside restaurant, and then went for a stroll down the path that runs along the beach, which our hotel sat right on, of course.

They had this little work out circuit thing, which we had to read the directions for, as most of them were really random exercises.


We topped the day off by driving a few minutes down the coast to Puerto Banus, which is where the rich and famous dock their private yacht and drive their fancy cars. We wandered for a while, but unfortunately didn't take any pics, as neither of us wanted to carry around the camera case, but lets just say that the "boats" were pretty unbelievable, and the cars were almost all worth a lot more than our house. We threw around the idea of getting some dinner, but after we paid 4 euro for one scoop of gelato (about five bucks), we decided we could wait until we got back to our only moderately expensive area.

Somehow we ended up with pizza from an Italian restaurant (apparently we don't get enough of that here in Italy...), but it was cheap and easy to take back to the room with us, which is what we wanted. So we ate pizza and candy (we had also hit up a grocery store for snacks) in bed, and watched tv until we passed out.

A perfect first day.